Week 2 - Could it really happen?

Now into week 2 of eHarmony I am a little more hopeful at the possibilities but at the sametime still a little weary.  I am still communicating with the same man who contacted me the very first day and we are just on the cusp of - gasp! - open communication.  We have gone through the 4 levels of guided communication and am now waiting for the last series of questions to come through.  Yay! Let the face to face adventures begin!!!!???

Let me just say, it's a hell of a lot easier to go through guided communication than going to a bar

or dance club and hope that you meet someone.  But sometimes I do wonder - what happened to meeting people naturally, or organically as Drew Barrymore's character said in "He's Just Not That Into You"?  I could totally relate to her experience in the film - it is exhausting and I am hoping that this eHarmony thing doesn't become like yet another part-time job like a lot of other things can become - you know -things like looking for a condo/house, looking for a job, and the list can go on and on.

The other thing I need to get used to is - communicating with more than one man.  I mean, truly at heart, I am a one-man woman.  But through this process I am learning, when one door opens so does a couple more.  You can actually communicate with more than one guy through guided communication (i.e. a set of questions over a variety of different levels/ways) and still not feel too too guiilty about it, right? Right?!

So I will keep you posted on how things go with "R" and the other matches should they play ball.  Ah, love, virtually and otherwise should prove to be interesting!